You must have a clear purpose in your life and you must stick to it no matter what. Every single broke, unmotivated 9-5 worker in America will give you a million reasons why you can't do something. If you want to be like the average person, listen their advice, shit, go ahead and listen to the advice of the bum on the street. If you want to do something extraordinary every ordinary person will tell you that you can't do it and that you shouldn't do it. These types of people have not accomplished anything and they can't attract beautiful women. These average and below average people are not living their dreams and they have no goals and no vision. If you were living your dream right now you would have more women than you could even handle. This is why you MUST have a vision and do everything in your power to make it a reality. Everyone around you will try to convince you that you cannot accomplish your goals. Even your family and your parents want you to take the safe road in life, they don't want you to take risks and go for broke. No one gives a fuck about your dreams, they want you to have a "safe" and "secure" life. The problem is that you must take risks in order to accomplish greatness. You have to free yourself from the opinions of other people. At one point you had a vision for the future that you actually desired, but people around you convinced you otherwise. You have to say fuck that, you have to accomplish what you desire, don't waste your time living someone else's life.